When bad things happen, what do you do?
Even the most prayerful among us cannot help but react in more or less the same way when troubles set in: we seek to avoid them, we fret over them, and we bemoan our fate. Many wonder why, if God is so great, does He allow terrible things to happen? Doesn’t He care? Is it possible that He cannot control these things?
The most common explanation for these questions has to do with free will, and Adam’s fall, and the introduction of pain and suffering as a consequence. This is a valid and important component in understanding human suffering; however, there is another equally important component that is often overlooked, because it is much more difficult to comprehend. It involves a radical re-thinking of our understanding of pain and suffering.
Our God…is a God of exquisite suffering.
OK, that’s a rather shocking suggestion, in part because it smacks of accusing God of being a sadist. Our minds naturally rebel against the mere suggestion that suffering could be good, much less the suggestion that suffering plays a part in the nature of our God. The idea is so far contrary to common sense that we never even consider such a thing. Yet if we allow ourselves to explore this idea, we find that it is nearly impossible to deny.
…He will reign on David's throne…(2 Sam 7:16)
Christ was the long-awaited Messiah: many had expected that He would deliver them--not just spiritually, but physically--from the yoke of the pagan Romans. Like his forefather David, he would be a great warrior who would establish a new and glorious kingdom.
Yet how could Our Lord employ violence? How is it possible that God himself could commit sin, whether by lying, stealing or killing? Though he clothed himself in a mantle of weakness by becoming human, it is inconceivable that he could accomplish the salvation of all people by the sword.
…for all that take the sword shall perish with the sword. Thinkest thou that I cannot ask my Father, and he will give me presently more than twelve legions of angels? How then shall the scriptures be fulfilled, that so it must be done? (Matthew 26:52-54)
Instead, he was led as a sheep to the slaughter and made to suffer insult, injury and ignominious death. So then if suffering were truly evil, how could Christ have submitted to such a thing?
Moreover, of all the might at His disposal, why should our Lord choose such submission as the means of our salvation? Surely He would have preferred an easier way! Rather, Christ desired this path of redemption precisely because suffering is the natural consequence of all the things that Christ himself instructed us to do:
But I say to you that hear: Love your enemies, do good to them that hate you. Bless them that curse you, and pray for them that calumniate you. And to him that striketh thee on the one cheek, offer also the other. And him that taketh away from thee thy cloak, forbid not to take thy coat also. Give to every one that asketh thee, and of him that taketh away thy goods, ask them not again.
And as you would that men should do to you, do you also to them in like manner. And if you love them that love you, what thanks are to you? for sinners also love those that love them. And if you do good to them who do good to you, what thanks are to you? for sinners also do this. And if you lend to them of whom you hope to receive, what thanks are to you? for sinners also lend to sinners, for to receive as much. But love ye your enemies: do good, and lend, hoping for nothing thereby: and your reward shall be great, and you shall be the sons of the Highest; for he is kind to the unthankful, and to the evil.
Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful. Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you shall be forgiven. Give, and it shall be given to you: good measure and pressed down and shaken together and running over shall they give into your bosom. For with the same measure that you shall mete withal, it shall be measured to you again.
Luke 6:27-38
Could anyone hope to follow such instructions without being made both pauper and laughingstock? Yet all of these things Christ himself did, and He exhorted all who would listen to do the same, time and again.
…Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are ye when they shall revile you, and persecute you, and speak all that is evil against you, untruly, for my sake: Be glad and rejoice, for your reward is very great in heaven. For so they persecuted the prophets that were before you.
Matthew 5: 11-12
The entire New Testament teems with examples of Christ’s teachings on the subject. Surely Christ regarded suffering as a necessary “evil” for the salvation of our souls! Surely no one of passing familiarity with scripture would argue otherwise. The early Christian martyrs, the desert hermits, the Church Fathers, the monastics—all of these understood this perfectly.
Yet all of us, when we attempt to put Christ’s words into practice, fail again and again, because our common sense continues to be unable to take insult after insult, to forgive “70 times 7 times”, to give until it hurts. Surely we must take some self-preservation into account!
Here we are forced to realize that though all these things seem bad to us because of our human condition, these things are not evil in the eyes of God, nor do they truly cause suffering to those who no longer are imprisoned by the flesh.
But this still does not necessarily mean that the nature of God Himself is one of suffering—only that it is necessary for us as humans to suffer if we wish to gain eternal life. How can we interpolate further? To truly understand this concept would require a library and a lifetime…so any hopes of fully explaining it in a mere blog post are beyond impossible. I will briefly touch on the subject, but if you are interested in more on the subject, you’ll need that library…
The people that walked in Darkness…
The best way I can possibly describe this concept in brief is…light. We are not strangers to the concept of light as a symbol of the divine, from “Let there be light” to “the light of the world” to the tongues of flame that came to rest on the disciples’ heads at Pentecost. Nearly every religion associates light with divinity, and for good reason. Without light, there would be no life, no warmth, no energy…it is that without which nothing else could be.
But light has another very interesting property: it is opposite, but not equal to, darkness. By this I mean that, though you can shine a light into a dark room, you can not shine a dark into a light room. Light has a positive nature. The only way to escape from the sunlight is to block it with something, from a parasol to a planet. Darkness is merely the lack of light. (To say that it has a negative nature would make it sound equal and opposite, as in math…so rather than giving it that name, we might call it imperfect. Aristotle called the positive actual and the imperfect potential…) It is easy to see how we can draw parallels between this sort of positive nature and divinity.
There are many other things on this earth which share this sort of nature…heat, energy…even life itself will persist unless stopped. It is even possible to loosely claim that goodness and evil are like light and dark; however, the nuances that exist within both words are very tricky, and do not always work out as we would expect. Suffering happens to be one of those things, as it is normally—and naturally—lumped in with evil. But if we look at suffering, we find that perhaps it is not so.
For example, we said that escaping from the sun required some sort of blockage. At first glance, we might naturally assume that suffering is due to a blockage of health or well-being. But which one actually does something? And which one has something done to it? The light dispels the darkness, not the other way ‘round…heat travels from warm areas to cool areas…and illness, pain, heartache…they disrupt the equilibrium of health and well being and contentment. Like force upon a body at rest, it is suffering that acts upon our frail humanity.
Yes, I didn’t believe it at first either, but the more I questioned it, the more certain I became: Suffering, like light, is positive in nature…and like all things positive in nature, has its true source in the Divine.
The antithesis of Pandora
Think about our example of the sun again: its light is so intense that it has the ability to blind us. Likewise, the heat and energy it produces can be punishing. Even though they are essentially good and necessary, our bodies are often unable to tolerate those things of positive nature in too great intensity. It is exactly so with suffering.
However, when our souls leave our bodies, light and heat and suffering shall not cease to exist for us—but because we are not encountering them with our bodies, our experience of them will not be the same. We shall then be able to see clearly how every instance of suffering opens for us an avenue of spiritual growth, healing and redemption.
We are now like those who, accustomed to a dark room, squint and curse at the bright sunlight. The nature of our sinfulness—of our bondage to Satan—makes us recoil at the helping hand that suffering brings. When our all-too-human desire for comfort causes us to recoil at suffering, we are unknowingly recoiling from God’s grace.
For yes, suffering is pure unadulterated grace.
Only when we manage to put our instinct for self-preservation aside do we succeed in turning the other cheek. Only when we continually put ourselves last—without complaining—do we succeed in continually putting others first. Only when we give everything we have do we succeed in taking up our cross as Christ commanded. And only when we welcome suffering do we receive this enormously healing grace, not merely for ourselves, but for all. Impossible, you say? Well, naturally!
And in the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent from God…To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary. And the angel being come in, said unto her: Hail, full of grace, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women. Who having heard, was troubled at his saying, and thought with herself what manner of salutation this should be. And the angel said to her: Fear not, Mary, for thou hast found grace with God.
Behold thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and shalt bring forth a son; and thou shalt call his name Jesus…And Mary said to the angel: How shall this be done, because I know not man? And the angel answering, said to her: The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the most High shall overshadow thee. And therefore also the Holy which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God.
And behold thy cousin Elizabeth, she also hath conceived a son in her old age; and this is the sixth month with her that is called barren: Because no word shall be impossible with God. And Mary said: Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it done to me according to thy word.
(Luke 1: 26-38)
Fiat mihi secundum verbum tuum.
With these words, Mary brought into this world God’s own son. If this was possible, then even our own tiny little ‘fiats’ can bring untold grace into the darkness of this world. When we get the sniffles, we can say ‘fiat’-- Thy will be done, Lord. When we are bedridden with double pneumonia, it is quite a bit harder to say, but the harder it is, the more grace there is waiting. When our lives are crashing down on all sides…when we face anger, guilt, despair…when our loved ones don’t treat us as they should…when we are reviled and persecuted and slandered…we must learn to see the hand of God--not punishing us, but reaching out to us. Mary didn’t have to say ‘fiat’, and neither do we. But by doing so, she became Queen of Heaven, mother and mediatrix to the human race. And in a small way, we too participate in God’s plan for our salvation by accepting our crosses…with a kiss.
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